So, the year is new and my Buy No Clothes
for a Year challenge is over. The
goal was to go for a whole twelve months without purchasing or actively
acquiring any clothes, be they brand new or second hand, with exceptions for
underwear and any items necessary for work. And I’d say, more or less, I was
successful. The only clothing purchases wear a pair of trousers for a job
interview, a pair of jeans to wear to my neat-casual dress-code job, and a
dress. The dress is the one item that walks a thin line; ostensibly it was for
work – and I did wear it first to a job interview – but it felt more like I was
buying it for the pretty. The fact that it could be worn to work seemed a
little like an added benefit. BUT I did wear it to work (in fact so far, I’ve
only worn it to work) and all three items were op-shopped, too, so I feel
pretty good about it all too.
Somewhere around about September, I started
to get veeeeery bored with what was in my wardrobe. Favourite, basic, comfy
items like my jeans and long sleeved black tops were starting to wear out and
look quite ratty and I was feeling quite frustrated with the lack of variety.
This was when I started to get a bit experimental with some of my outfits, and
also started chopping and hemming various other items just so I felt like I had
something new to wear! Also about this, my very stylish sisters cleared out
their wardrobes almost simultaneously, and without asking I ended up with a few
staples and pretties to freshen my wardrobe and give me the boost to stay out the
last few months.
The most successful part, however, wasn’t
about whether I did or did not slip up, but it was more about my attitude to
clothes. I’ve always loved to dress up, of putting on a persona with my
clothes, and for me dressing had become inextricably linked with who the world
perceived me as. I was getting too caught up in questioning whether I was
giving the world the right perception of me through my clothes, especially
since moving to the inner northern suburbs of Melbourne, a very style conscious
area. In short, I was stressing too much about my image, and felt that that
problem could be solved by the next trip to the vintage store (which of course
it never was!). So the year just gone was about stepping back from my
interaction with the ‘perfection myth’ sold to us by advertising in its many
forms and learning to be satisfied with what I have. I hadn’t realised until last year that I felt a pressure
walking into, or even past a clothing store, a pressure to consider the
options, weigh them up, contemplate which items I liked and which worked for me
and which sold the world the image of me that I wanted it to see. The first
time I walked past a clothes store and I wasn’t allowed to consider the
clothes, I was surprised by the sense of relief that I felt. Over the year,
that sense of relief has turned into a sense of freedom, and that is the success of this clothing
challenge.
Having said all that, I wet op-shopping
last Wednesday, and got quite a haul. Wanna see?
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| A lovely, warm green woollen coat to replace the cheap, polyester one I have been wearing. |
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| A cute silk cropped jacket that Dom picked off the rack for me. It fits me very well! |
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| I was very happy with this purchase: a dress from Cue. Not only is it second hand, but originally, it was made in Australia from Italian made fabric. It looks to be very well made, it fits me well, and will be quite versatile. I bought it with work in mind, but I think it'll cross into the after five category quite nicely. And all for twenty bucks! |
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| Now this is one that has nothing to do with work! A party frock all the way, coloured tights some ankle boots. I think I'm going to wear this to the Sisters of Mercy gig in February. |
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| A light summer frock. I'd wear this over swimmers if we were closer to the beach, and if the weather seemed at all like anything approximating beach weather. |
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| Doesn't look much on the hanger, but this is a pure wool, tailored skirt. Found this in one of the up-market 'burb Vinnies. It's a touch more corporate than I'm used to, but I'm sure it'll come in handy for the new job. |
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| A few basic tees. Mostly from horrible brands like Dotti and Supre with poor ethical and quality track records that I wouldn't ordinarily touch, but second hand, that's less of an issue and they'll be good for layering. |
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| A nice vintage jumper. |
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| A good top which again will cross well from work wear to casual wear. |
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| Another Dom selection. I think it's intended to be a men's vest; it's quite long, but worn over jeans, possibly with a belt around the middle, and I think it'll look quite dapper. |
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| Another possible work dress. I think it might be home-sewn, cos I can't find any tags. Too bad I didn't find this one while I was still at the kinder -- it would have been great for orange day! |
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| I think this is a work dress. It looks quite stylish over tights with a scarf and possibly a belt. I don't think it's quite me outside of office hours though... |
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| And finally, a comfy, cotton knit bath robe for keeping decent around flatmates. |
All in all, not a bad day's shopping. Dom got a fair few things for himself, and we picked up a few things for the house as well. Far more shopping than I've done in quite a while.
I've also had a bit of a revelation about clothes this year. Still not perfectly clear, but has something to do with the fact that tibetan monks in their robes are some of the most strikingly dressed people in my mind. The colours and the simplicity, the freedom of not being affected by expectations of how one should look like.I find myself dressing totally different to what I think people expect me to dress.It has made me start to rethink how I dress and the reason we have clothing. All a bit muddled in my head at the moment, but Things are always evolving here. What's that you said about change in your last post. Anyway your op shopping seems to have gone well and you scored some really nice things, especially like the cue dress.
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wow what a haul of finds but well deserved after going without for that long! well done !
ReplyDeleteThat all looks so awesome! Isn't it amazing what people throw away!?
ReplyDeleteI was quite liberated when I went travelling for 6 months and living out of a back pack with only a handful of clothes totally changed how I saw fashion and dressing. I have to say that I care a lot less about fitting in with the cool kids and much rather my blunnies and gardening clothes! I find scarves always fix an outfit if I'm feeling drab... I love scarves!
I'm very proud of you, you know!
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